In the meantime, I met my future wife at a party, she came from
Colombo Sri Lanka we decided to get married in August 1960. After a
while we needed more money so I opted for a clinic in Birmingham
owned by a Polish Dental Mechanic, he needed a qualified Dentist to
run the place.
There
we rented a three-bedroom flat sharing with two friends, one of them
left soon. So, I asked Baba to come and stay with us. He came
reluctantly as he did not approve of our marriage. At the end, he
stayed with us for about six months. On July26th my eldest
son was born, he was very happy to have another grandson.
Next
day lunch time I went with a friend and bought a car a 2nd hand Ford
Consul. Baba was upset because my left eye was bad I can only to see
properly through one eye. Baba did not want me to drive but I have
been able to drive for 53 years without any trouble till I damaged my
right eye in 2011.But still managed with my limited vision to drive
till 2014.
1961
I bought a dental surgery in Blackheath Birmingham. My income
increased considerably so I bought a three-bedroom house in Edgbaston
Birmingham and named it Probashi. 1964 in January my second son was
born .1965 I decided to return to India so I sold the house. But the
person who was to buy my surgery had a heart attack and died. Unable
to accompany them my two sons and my wife went for a holiday to India
and Sri Lanka. During their trip my second son picked up a stomach
infection. So, they had to stay back for longer period and Pratap was
operated by my father-in-law’s friend Dr Bartholomew. By then my
third son Amal was born. They returned to Birmingham when Amal was 7
weeks old. Soon I found a customer who bought my surgery and sold it.
Then decided to buy another surgery in London and we all moved back
to London. Now I started staying in a rented house where my daughter
was born I found a three- bedroom house with a big Garden in
Hampstead Gardens. It was upper middle class area. Most of our Asian
friends could not believe I being an Indian was allowed to buy a
house where there were no Asian or African.
We
were welcomed by all our neighbours. So, I started a monthly get
together on the 1st Saturday of the month. As long as we
were there the get together continued with the immediate neighbours.
End
of 1968 Jaggin Sharma came to visit me as he was working in Golders
Green. He asked me how to buy a surgery so, I said if you want you
can buy my surgery. He agreed, so I sold it to him and sold the house
also and returned to Calcutta to my father’s house in 1969.Baba
asked what I planned to do so I said I am looking for a place in
Chowringhee area to start a clinic. Next morning it was a Sunday Baba
saw an advert in the Statesman that on Harrington Street there is a
flat which is attached to Harrington Nursing Home owned by the owner
of the Nursing Home. I telephoned the owner Subhol Bhur and met him
with a friend of mine who always already practicing in Park Street.
He being older and more experience did the talking, at the end I
asked person if he was the owner, he said no he was the manager. My
answer was I want to talk to the owner. He took me to the office Mr
Bhur asked my friend what he exactly wants, then I told him he is not
looking for the flat it is for me. So, he turned to me and said you
look too young to be practising for 12 years in the UK. So, he asked
why did you refuse to discuss the matter with the manager. I told him
I do not like to having agreement with subordinates. He seemed to be
pleased with my attitude. I took the flat from the 1st of
the next month. But my equipment did not come for another three
months. I had to wait till mid-June 1969 to start my clinic. Mr Bhur
took a lively interest so he gave me a list of Doctors whom I invited
for the opening ceremony they were all well-known Doctors of Calcutta
including some Europeans. My first patient was Dr Kripa Mitra he
wanted that I see him as a 1st patient as he is a lucky
man so I will carry the luck an insisted on paying for the treatment.
His wife also a Doctor could not come but invited me to her place
next day, Bimala di was a wonderful host.
My
party was a real success as quite a few Doctors became very close
friends for life. Name a few Dr Adi Gazdar, Dr Rajan Wats, Dr N.K.
Paul, Dr Tom Chowdhury, Dr N.K. Ghosh, Dr Subir Chatterjee and Dr
Satyan Bose. Mr Bhur was very pleased and decided to give a party in
his house to a number of his well know friends in Calcutta so the
Upper class of Calcutta Society will accept me. As Gopal da told me
when I started there is always room at the top. Adi and Rajan were
consultants to British and American Consulate they both introduced me
to both Consulates. When they started coming soon most the Executives
from foreign companies started visiting my clinic. Soon other
consulate like German, Russian, Japanese Italian etc.
Next
I was invited to the Queen’s Birthday Party at the British High
Commission and American Consulate for Independence Day celebrations.
After that I never had to look back. Next I thing, I had join a well
know club So I applied for a membership of Calcutta Club. I applied
for membership of Calcutta Club Sachinda a family friend and Dr U.S.
Mallick my ex principal introduced me as a member. In 1971 I joined
the club with a bit of help from my Uncle C.P.Mukherjee as the normal
waiting list was 5 years, I got in two years .After joining the club
my wife was really happy so she could meet more people and make
friends also use the library of the club which was well known for its
collection. Also on holiday she could take the children for a swim
and have tea and snacks there and I would collect them in the evening
after my clinic is closed life became more pleasant.
Twice
or thrice a week in the evening we started getting together a group
of friends with their wives and stayed on quiet late sometimes till
the bar closed at 11pm.
In
1969 when I went to admit Prabir to St Lawrence where I had written
from London. But the principal did not realise that Prabir knew no
Bengali and up to class V the medium of teaching was Bengali or
Hindi. I had to find another school where they taught in English so
the principal gave me a letter to the Principal of Don Bosco School
in Park Circus he was an Italian. He asked me bring the boy and his
school report from his school in London. I took him with his
old-school report. The Principal met him and saw the report, then
said they haven’t given him any marks so I said you may not know in
the U.K.in the report they mention good, bad or mediocre. But
Prabir’s report says excellent for his knowledge of English, Maths,
History and his behaviour. So, he said can you bring him back another
day so I said no, he is not for sale you being the Principal, do not
know after seeing him whether you can accept him in Class 2. I am
sorry I will ask my wife to start a school in Calcutta as she is a
teacher. My brother in law Dr Banerjee was with me he got very
worried. Principal looked at me for a second then opened a drawer and
handed me a form to fill in and handed me a list of Books to be
Purchased.
Next
day I got hold of a second-hand Ambassador car with the help of
Lakshmi Narayan Chatterjee who is a cousin of my brother in law. So
I decided to visit my old college to meet my old friends, now it has
changed its name to Dr R Ahmed Dental College after the demise of Dr
R.Ahmed as was the founder of the college .There I met Prasanto Bose
Vice Principal he introduced me to the Principal Dr Das who
immediately offered me a job there as an assistant Professor on
condition I cannot practice outside with a non-practicing allowance
Rs 1500/- I said I have a family of four children so I can’t live
with that salary. Next question have you arranged the schooling for
your children, you must go through the backdoor by paying a bribe or
else you won’t get your children admitted to a good school. So I
told him I am a Calcuttan if it is so difficult I will ask my wife to
start a school, that was the last encounter with the principal. Then
Prasanto asked me to go to the main hospital to meet the other
contemporary dentists like Shankar, Koley, Roychoudhury, and others
who were known to me during my school days after that day I started
visiting the hospital very often after dropping Prabir to school. .
After that Prabir and myself went to Sri Lanka where my wife and
younger three Children were staying with my in laws. Next evening we
went to Ambalangoda we wanted to have some Western food they offered
soup ,roast lamb and sweet soup.The soup was very hot with chillie
then came the lamb dipped in chillie sauce .My children could not eat
it so the bearers came to ask if they want sweet Prabir said do not
put chillie in it at last they could eat something
Prabir
had a problem with his Bengali script so I asked Khokon a cousin of
mine who was doing of mine who was doing his M.A in history to teach
Bengali to Prabir so he took the challenge and taught him Bengali
through the Roman script in later life he learnt Hindi, Tamil,
Alchiki (Santali) he is good with languages. The Junior School
Principal nick named him Professor as he had the right answers for
any general knowledge questions. The Lady thought my wife was a bit
funny in the head. So I told him that my second son Pratap has to
join the school next year he said he has to sit for an entrance test.
He did and failed so I told the principal he had to accept him
otherwise I will have to take Prabir out and put him in the school
where Pratap will be accepted as I haven’t got time to take two
boys to two different schools, then hesitantly he admitted Pratap.
Next year was worse because Amal was under age for class 1 but they
had no nursery school. When I asked him to take Amal who just about
knew his alphabet and count to 100. But he insisted he had to sit for
the entrance test. I asked him if he does will you take him he said
yes. So, we took Amal for the test. Amal came out after the test, I
and my wife asked him how he had done. He answered I think I stood
1st because, my wife asked him why do you think you stood first
because the Lady with the long dress (a priest in a cassock) was
gentle to me and gave me two sweets but all the others got one. Next
day a list of successful students was on the board but no Amal
Chatterjee. I went and met the principal asked why Amal’s name was
not on the list so he turned around and said those who got 80% or
more we accept them but Amal got 10% . But you promised to take him
if he sat for the test even though I told you he does not know
anything. I said look most of the children have been going to another
school for two years, but he has never been but the principal said he
said when I asked him he said he comes to school every day with his
brothers. So, I laughed and said that is true I said that is true he
comes to drop Pratap and Prabir to your school every day. I want a
deal with you after the 1st semester exam is in three months’ time
my wife will prepare him for the exam if he allowed in the class and
I will pay the fees for three months in advance and after the 1st
exam if he is below 50% of the class I will remove him from the
school. So reluctantly he accepted him. After the 1st
terminal exam I went and saw the Principal and asked should I take
him away from this school? He said you want to take away the 1st
boy of the from the school. Due to Prabir’s weakness in Bengali he
was always 2nd or 3rd in his class. His Bengali teacher felt sorry
for him and in class IV she gave him extra marks result he came 1st
in class. So, the boy who always stood first was very upset she came
and asked my wife she doesn’t feel upset whe n Prabir doesn’t top
the class. My wife answered I don’t think there is any difference
between 1st, 2nd, and 3rd -they are the same standard.
Next
year I applied to Goethals Memorial School in Kurseong as I promised
the boys at the age of11 years the would be sent to boarding school
Goethals didn’t have room in Class VI so they suggested I send him
to St Patrick School in Asansol, so he was sent to St Patricks for a
year. During the summer holiday. During the summer holiday I went to
Asansol to pick him up. On our return to Calcutta by train we were
half way back when we heard a commotion in the next compartment, I
went to enquire what was wrong in the corridor. I found two young men
were standing with the bhojali in their hand, so I told them to put
away the bhojali as they might hurt someone. Suddenly a chap of late
20’s came over with a revolver and told me to go back to my seat
otherwise he will shoot as they were robbing the passengers’. So,
went back to my compartment and told the other passengers what was
happening so they could hide their valuable possessions. A little
while later the two chaps with the bhojali came to our compartment
waving the bhojali and collected the money and came to me last so I
told them to put away the bhojali otherwise they will be in trouble
so they left me alone and walked off as the train was slowing down
due to repair work on the track they jumped off the train. So, I
looked out and called railway workers to intercept the dacoity, they
pelted stone chips and caught the dacoits. They were handed over to
the police.
My
wife and children wanted to spend X’ mas in Colombo. I, decided to
take them to Sri Lanka during the school holidays. Financially by
then I had spent all my savings and my income was not very good. So,
we took a second class 3tier train to Madras. From Madras Central to
the Sri Lankan Consulate we took a taxi to get our Visa, with a
letter from Raja Sethukavelar who was the adviser to the President of
Sri Lanka and a close cousin of my wife and his wife Rosemary. She
was my wife’s best friend and used to send a lot of clothes for my
daughter Deepika . It was about in the morning we got the visa about
8 am because Raja telephoned the consul so we could avail the flight
to Colombo on the same day at 11am. Raja came to receive us at the
airport to receive us so we didn’t have any hassle at the airport
or customs. It was one of the best holidays since we left England.
Raja and Rosemary made sure we had a good holiday and spent a lot of
our time in their Bungalow in Havelock Town. The children had a good
time with Rosemary’s eight dogs one thing Prabir complained about
Raja Mamas curry as it was spicy hot. We all went to Kandy to see
Temple of the Tooth on the way back we stopped at the Elephant Park
where orphan elephants were looked after. I recordered the trip on my
cine camera which we still have as Pratap made a copy of it. After
returning to Colombo we took my father in laws Driver Velayudham to
fascinated to see the ceiling fan was inside the mosquito net. Next
stop was Negombo famous for its prawn. Prabir pointed to the board
that said battered prawns which was Buttered Prawns, we returned to
Colombo. The children wanted to travel back to India by boat, so we
took a boat trip from Talaimannar to Rameswaram. From there we took
an overnight train to Madras. When we reached, Madras I discovered
our reservations on the Calcutta (Howrah) Mail was not confirmed so
we had to stay in Madras for the next five days. Fortunately, I had
taken an introductory letter for Madras Gymkhana club for our meals
as we were staying in Udupi Hotel due to lack of funds which was
strictly vegetarian so we only had our breakfast there. Other meals
we had in the gymkhana club as I could pay after returning to
Calcutta through the Calcutta Club, when we returned to Calcutta.
Prabir was accepted in Goethals in Kurseong. At the end of Feburary I
booked tickets for Prabir and myself on the Kanchenjunga Express. But
for some reason the team was cancelled, I went to Hare street to get
a reservation on Darjeeling mail waiting to meet the Railway PRO I
met Shakuntala wife of who was schoolmate Shambhoo was working in
same office so she got me a single ticket for Prabir. On the same
train and compartment I met Mrs Monica Mishra wife of Vnayak an
I.A.S. officer who was a year older than Prabir. She asked me who is
accompanying Prabir my answer was you because I was only able to get
one ticket hearing that Monica called her husband Vinayak to meet me
as Iam sending my 11-year-old son on his own to a school and I have
never met any of the staff of the school. From that day, Vinayak
became a good friend of mine.
Next
Saturday Mr Scott Chief of British council invited us for his fair
well party as well as introduce me to the new chief Patrick Jackson
and his wife Helen in no time Patrick and myself became friends.
Every other week we were invited for cocktails and dinner wherever he
received some fresh wine. Soon afterwards another Scottish couple
Tony and Laura Cassidy took over. Quite often we spent weekends with
them and Adi. Later Patrick and Helen took over. After a while Dr
Ranjit Panja and Krishna also joined the crowd. Gregoryne became good
friends with Krishna who dragged her to Sheiladi’s school so she
became Vice-Principal. Though financially we were not well off but
socially we were accepted in the high society of Calcutta. It was
very difficult for me to maintain the social status but somehow, I
managed it.
By
then Pratap was ready to join Goethals. And Deepika having joined
Loreto House School was also an expensive game. So, every other
evening we went to Calcutta club to subdue my worries. Result was
people thought financially I am doing very well that is why I go to
Calcutta club so regularly se la vie as the French say.
One
day we were watching a film in the British council I suddenly fainted
with cold sweat so my wife insisted I see a Cardiologist Dr N.B. Das
saw me and wanted to admit me in Calcutta Hospital in Alipore and
wanted to admit me in Calcutta Hospital in Alipore and wanted to put
a pacemaker to stabilize my heart to me it seems very expensive game
and not my cup of tea. So, I walked out of the hospital and contacted
Adi and Ranjit for advice .
Next
day Dr Saibal Sen came with Dr Ranjit Panja and Dr Adi Gazdar .He
checked me and took an ECG at the end he asked me to run down to the
ground floor from the 2nd floor and return without
stopping Ranjit was aghast he thought I had a heart attack for sure.
But I followed Dr Sen’s instruction and ran down the stairs and
came back and Dr Sen took another ECG after that he lighted a
cigarette and told me nothing wrong with my heart. So, I asked him if
I can have a smoked for 3 days , he handed me a cigarette and gave me
a light. Today 41 one years later my heart is going strong .Since
that day Dr Saibal Sen became a fiend and patient of mine and so did
all his family members.
Next
Feburary Pratap accompanied Prabir and joined Goethals.The Same year
Gregoryene took Amal and Deepika during the Puja holidays with
Pratima wife of Major Malin Bose a close friend of mine to Sikkim
where he was posted On their way back they stopped in Kurseong to
meet the boys. The Principal Br Morrow was fond of Prabir and Pratap
so he wanted Amal to be admitted to Goethals. So Gregoreyne said we
are finding it difficult to pay for two boys so it is not possible to
send the third one. But Br Morrow was soe intrigued by the boys tha
he said you do not have to pay for the 3rd boy. I didn’t
agree and said as soon as Prabir finishes class X I will send Amal
but in the end I sent him the year before Prabir finished so the
three boys were in the same school .Soon after Aloke my younger
Brother left his job in Kakinara Jute mills and joined Jute
corporation of India in Calcutta ,so with his wife and son Tito he
moved to Calcutta. Rini is the daughter of a well know politician and
M.P. Rini and Gregoryne didn’t get on very well so Baba asked me to
find another accommodation as he was nervous of the well-known M.P.
As usual I lost my temper and moved out of the house within 24 hours
to a one room flat belonging to a school friends brother on condition
they would let me use the other room when the boys came back for
holidays. Life became more difficult .But Luckily Woodlands Nursing
home wanted to start a Dental Clinic the Chairman of ICI Mr Mudalia
who was a patient of mine and asked me to organise the clinic which
I did .Then he asked me to take charge of the clinic so I told him my
condition that I will do it part time as a consultant without a
salary but 50% of the turn over as my renumeration, he agreed .So I
started working there, for the next 25 years I was the Head of the
Dental Clinic and Dr Saibal sent by Dr Gopal Das Professor of Dental
College also joined the department as my colleague.
We
stayed in the flat at Lake terrace for six years the owner wanted
back the 2nd room. So we looked around and found a three
bedroom flat in Jamir Lan with a terrace so we could invite our
friends so life became a bit more pleasant.
All
three boys returned to Calcutta and joined St Xaviers college for
further studies. Prabir finished his Higher Secondary and applied for
medical studies. He was accept Vellore but his exam results were not
out so he had to wait for another year before he could join Vellore
after sitting for the test for a second time.
In
the meantime, Deepika wanted to boarding school, Sr Jones Deepika’s
Principal of the Junior School in Loreto House suggested we send her
to St Helen’s Convent in Kurseong. She was accepted as the sister
of Prabir, Pratap and Amal as they were known as good students
especially Prabir was a National school she was allowed to join in
Class IX. With Prabir in Medical College and Deepika in boarding my
financial position became worse for about two years I could not pay
rent for the Surgery. Luckily Mr Bhur was my land lord so fond of me,
he stood as guarantor for me with the bank so that I could tomorrow
enough money to pay back the rent. Gradually I managed to pay back
the bank.
By 1984 Deepika passed her ICSE exam and came back to Calcutta.
Prabir also finished his 1st MBBS and came back to Kolkata
he wanted a break from exams and wanted to travel around rural India
to find out what are the medical needs in the Indian villages as he
wanted to be a village doctor. The Director of CMC Vellore that it
will cause a problem for his future employment as he will be
irregular student during his studies. He was even more surprised that
I had no objection and pay for his tour so he wanted to meet me to
find out what type of person I am.
The
previous summer Pratap finished his High Secondary exams as usual he
went around India for about three months which Prabir had done after
his H. S. exams. Amal also did the same tour after his H.S exam.
While on his India tour Prabir spent about three months in Siddha
School of Medicine, which is the South Indian of Ayurveda Medicine.
So, that we could treat village people with low cost medicine. Dr
Pullimood the director was really pleased with the research paper. He
inlater years tried to persuade other students to follow Prabir in
his footsteps. Prabir returned to his regular studies after six
months and became a Union leader as the Secretary of the Student
Union and caused a lot of trouble for the staff and unscrupulous
students the director Dr Pulimood nick named him one man Terrorist
Gang. And the local Police thought he was Naxal coming from Bengal,
wearing Pajama and Punjabi carrying a jhola bag and sporting a beard.
End of 1984 he was returning here for X-Mas holidays arriving in
Madras he read the newspaper about the gas disaster in Bhopal so he
went straight there to help the disaster victims. We had no idea
about two weeks later two of his classmates came to my clinic to meet
him. So, I said he is not in Calcutta but his classmates said they
came to Madras on the same train after that they have not seen him.
So, I told them not to tell my wife that he was missing. I will try
to find out try to find out where he is gone. As luck, have it few
days later another classmate went to the house to ask my wife where
Prabir was, she really got worried and telephoned me to ask me
whether I heard about Prabir. When I told, her I knew she said I was
the most heartless person in the world my guts tell me that nothing
is wrong with him and he will be in Calcutta by the 9th as
10th is Pratap’s birthday. Actually, he turned up by 5th
and told us about his trip to Bhopal and the work he did there. Next
Puja holiday Deepika and both of us went to Vellore Prabir arranged a
lunch for Mahashtami the 3rd of the Puja also organised a
Bijoy Dasami celebration with the help of a Bengali Muslim from
Dacca. Later I met who was really surprised to meet us he was under
the impression Prabir was a village boy and did not realise that he
came from a very Westernized family like ours. Deepika stayed in the
girls hostel as most of Prabir’s classmates wanted Deepika to share
their room, so she slept in different rooms every night. Gregoryne
and Deepika went to Bangalore with Prabir and went on to Mysore. I
stayed back in Vellore and spent time meeting Prabirs teachers who
invited me to their houses in the evenings.
By
the time, we came back to Calcutta Pratap was preparing for his BSC
final exam on the 5th of December. He finished his exam
and on the 6th December ’85 left for the UK after
publishing his book of Poems. He was also the editor of English
Academy Magazine so I suggested while in England he should study
Journalism with a bit of difficulty he managed to get admission for a
postgraduate study in Journalism in London. While studying for
Journalism one of his articles was Published in the front page of
Financial Times which was the first time for any Indian Journalist so
he was welcomed in Fleet street by the same evening. Next opportunity
came he was selected by the editor of the Independent to represent
them in Geneva for a GATT International conference of commerce.
In
the meantime, Amal finished his English Honours so he decided to go
to UK I suggested he writes his thesis on his future studies and send
it to Oxford and Cambridge. He was accepted in Oxford for PHD but
before they wanted him to do a year in undergraduate as he did his
graduation from then only he would be allegeable for a scholarship.
Amal refused to repeat the graduation. In the end, Canterbury
University accepted him for research M.A. I had to find enough funds
for his studies. I took a risk and sent him as didn’t want him to
lose the opportunity. So, with the help of some friends and the Bank
I managed it with difficulty. Therefore, I was back with a big debt.
Fortunately, Prabir had finished his MBBS and was now I did not have
to pay for his studies while struggling with my financial problems.
One of my old patients Daddy Mazda was admitted to Woodlands Hospital
so his wife came and told me that Daddy wants to see me as he is
bedridden. When I visited him Prabir had passed his MBBS Pratap was
studying Journalism in London and Amal had just joined Canterbury
University .He sat up in bed and asked his wife Meher to bring his
cheque book and write a cheque for one and half lacs so I am not
short of money while the boys are studying in the UK .I refused on
Principle and said if I ever need it I will come and ask him first
which I never had to do.In the meantime Pratap went to America for a
London based newspaper to do an article on Asians living in America .
While he was in New York who was a student of New school of Social
Sciences .He met the Dean of the faculty who was impressed and
offered a scholarship to study Environmental Economics, in 1988 he
went to America . So, I decided visit UK and America as I had a
complementary ticket from Air India as a consultant of Air India
every two years.
I
met Amal in Canterbury and met his Professor and his wife, he was
very Impressed by talking to me we chatted till midnight or rather 2
o’clock in the night. Amal told him later it is very difficult for
me to support him for two years, so if he could submit his thesis he
will do so. His Professor agreed on condition he will not receive his
M.A degree till the following degree till the following year. Amal
finished the Thesis in nine months this Professor asked how is he
going to support himself so he said he would take any odd job. But
the Professor offered him a job as a lecturer in English in Spain
till he gets his M.A
After
visiting Amal I went to New York to meet Pratap, he was sharing his
house with three other students. They were all studying in New York
but staying in New Jersey as New York was very expensive. One
Italian, one Icelander called Birgit whose knowledge was very limited
and difficult to understand the other student was American. Next
morning I went with Pratap to his college sitting in the coffee room
where there were a number of small tables like coffee house in
Calcutta. I sat with some friends of Pratap. Next table a group of
students discussing about a student whether he is from Oxford or
Cambridge. Suddenly one girl looked at me and said that elderly man
looks like Pratap why don’t you ask him so one student came to our
table and asked me if I was his father I said yes. She asked me where
did he study before came here and he learnt his English accent from
his mother who is a Tamilian.
I
spent most of my holidays sight-seeing in New York city including
Twin Towers on the top floor, they had binoculars for visitors to
have a bird’s eye view of New York which was really fascinating
after week I went to Delaware to meet my nephew Bachchu who was
working for Du Pont. In the morning Bachchu and wife both went to
work at 7am, Bachchu promised to return by lunch time. I got tired of
watching by 9am.so decided to take a walk around the place. I saw all
the houses were locked and not a soul around except dogs and cats.
After half an hour, I started my return to Bachchu’s house. After
some time, someone knocked me on me on the back I looked back it was
a dog a big Irish setter. So, I stopped and said what do you want he
went back and brought an empty can in his mouth. So, I took it from
him and threw it at a distance, he brought it back to me next minute
another dog joined the game in no time I had four or five dogs
running behind me with their toys. So, I decided to go back to the
house and close the door. Next day Bachchu took me to Washington to
the museums and White House. We stopped at the front gate, suddenly
an American fellow came to me and asked to spare a dollar. I laughed
my head off and said I come from the poorest country of the world and
you a citizen of the richest country of the World asking for alms.
Next day Sunday Bachchu had a get together in their house all Indians
and every Sunday they do it amongst themselves one house or the other
within 40 to 50 miles’ radius. But they do not mix very well with
their neighbours whether they are black or white. They stick with the
Indian community, I felt very uncomfortable and was glad to be back
with Pratap and his friends house. Then I returned to London and
stayed with my sister in law Jeanne to meet my old friends and also
some of Pratap’s old classmates from London. After a week, I
returned to Calcutta Back to the grind stone. Following week Saturday
I went to meet Deepika in Santiniketan as I did once a month. Deepika
joined Visva Bharati to do here degree in fine arts in 1985. She
specialized in Sculpture as her honours subject. In 1988 DD Bangla
did a programme on Tagore’s women Deepika was included in the
program. It was pleasant surprise to see her on TV I met most of her
teachers who were also very pleased with the program. Deepika
finished her graduation in 1990 and decided to go to the UK for
further studies. Gregoryne also with her to have a short holiday in
UK and stayed with her sister Jeanne. She also arranged for Deepika
to same in the same hostel she stayed during her student days
1958.Deepika came back to Calcutta after a year and worked in
Calcutta for a year. Next year during the summer Gregoryne with Leo
and Francoise Jalais went Uttarkashi . There Deepika met a Parsi lady
who was running an Ashram. When she returned she chucked up her
teaching job to work in a she got a job in Sofia college in Bombay.
After a year she joined the Ashram in Jaiharikhal within a year she
was so fed up with help I persuaded her to come back to Calcutta.
Later that year I was going to the UK to meet Amal and Pratap Deepika
also decided to return to the UK to meet do an M.A in England it took
time so she started working as a nursing assistant. By this time Amal
got a lectureship with his MA in Glasgow University and also a
research fellowship for M.Litt .I visited Amal in Glasgow and one day
I decided to visit my old school in Edinburgh as it was only 40 miles
away. I found a lot of change so I asked at the desk if I could go
around the hospital. So, the receptionist asked me why I wanted to
visit the hospital. I said I did my post graduate there, she wanted
to know when, I told her in 1956-57 about 32 years ago, she thought
it was fantastic that still moving around and Practising. On my
return to London I met Harekrishna my old classmate from Calcutta
also Suren Bhatia and K.P.Mukherjee.I realised that though they live
within a stone’s throw of each other they had not met each other
since 1969.HareKrishna and wife Bharati insisted I stay with them
overnight .They also invited Deepika for lunch on Sunday.We returned
to Jeanne’s placeon Sunday evening.Bhatrati became very fond of
Deepika and wanted her to stay with them. Deepika refused as she
wanted her freedom from restrictions of a guardian. But she was
willing to visit them at some weekends they were very happy. As I had
two weeks left .I went to Brussels to meet Pascalino and Chris
Jannelli .Pascalino was the director of EEC and I spent some time
with them and returned to London for a few days and came back to
London.
Next
week I returned to Calcutta to my Normal routine in Woodlands Nursing
home lunch time adda in Calcutta club and some light lunch. From 3 to
6pm at my clinic in Harrington. Gregoryne felt Prabir should be
married off as he needs someone to look after him as he wasn’t
capable of looking after himself properly. So, we started looking
around at the end through a social worker friend of Gregoryne we met
Sumona Ghosh a north Calcutta girl and a school teacher. She lost her
father as a child and was not very well off. I had no objections as I
was not bothered about her financial condition only interested a
decent looking and educated .December ’95 Prabir was married Amal
Pratap Deepika and Susan Amal’s wife came. Amal had already married
Susan in Glasgow where Amal was teaching and Susan was doing here M.A
in English she is Dutch .We decided to have a Reception in our house
in Santiniketan ,we invited friends and relatives and rented a guest
house near our house Probashi. We also had another reception in
Calcutta for uor friends and close relatives. Soon after that Prabir
went to Vellore for a Seminar after the Seminar the Director of
Vellor CMC got Prabir to sit for an entrance test for M.D. as M.D.
was necessary for his future carrier.He made him join Vellore for his
M.D ;in the long run it was worth it today he is the Director of
Health services for Chattisghar State. Piyali .While he was studying
for his M.D.in Vellore his daughter Piyali was born so we became
grand parents in 1998. After finishing his M.D. he joined W.H. O in
Bihar. After a while he resigned from there because of W.H. O lacked
attitude to the health work. Luckily UNICEF Calcutta office
discovered he had resigned from an NGO so they invited him to join
UNICEF as a consultant. He agreed on condition he work in a rural
area not in the city .He worked with UNICEF till he joined as
Director of Health Services in 2014.
In
1999 Deepika went back to do her Main England it took a bit of time
to get admission .So she worked as a sales girls or cashier in a
Departmental stores. After working for Some time she was accepted in
Leeds University for a Research M.A. for two years.
In
2000 I decided to visit UK as Susan and Amal had a baby girl called
Sonali in Glasgow and Deepika was working In London. Also, Pratap
planned to visit UK as he was a Managing Editor of Corp watch and was
travelling around the world quite often. So, we met in London and
travelled together to Glasgow. As, Amal was a Lecturer in Glasgow
University.
In
2002 I visited California to attend the Convocation of Pratap M.A. in
Fine arts and spent a month with him. In 2003 we decided to spend
Christmas in Colombo with the whole family, i.e. all the children and
grand-children and spent a month in Colombo and visited Jaffna. On my
return to Calcutta I started to reduce my practices by 2010 I stopped
working as my right eye was having a lot of trouble, also Gregoryne
was having lot of trouble with her knees she need to have knee
replacement . Deepika returned to Calcutta in 2012 to help us. By
2014 September we decided to settle in Santiniketan. Unfortunately,
Gregoryne fell down infront of his house and brokeher hip bone.
Result we were really house bound by June 2016 she passed away.
Now
Iam waiting for my last day it reminds me of a Bengali poem “Hari
din to gelo sandhya holo, par koro amarey tumi parer karta jenai
ebarta ami daki tomare”
The
meaning in English ‘Oh Lord help me on my final journey across you
are the path finder so Iam calling you to hear the news.’
I recorded the diary in English for the benefit of my grand-children
as they all understand English .But I like to add my background is
Bengali our Chatterjee clan started during rule of Ballal Sen on the
15th century .Five Brahmin teachers from Kanuj was brought
to Bengal to Bengal to improve Sanskrit education. They are
Mukhopadhya, Bandopadhya, Chattopadhya, Gangophadhya and
Bhattacharya. Maharshi Kashab . Whose decedents are called
Chattophadhya later the English re named them Chatterjee. Iam the
30th generation of Chatterjee my fore fathers were mostly
teachers though sometimes we deviated from teaching but again and
again took up teaching as a profession.